By Ella Stone
February is the month of Valentines Day, but it’s also Teen Dating Violence awareness month. Nearly half of US women in college have reported experiencing violence of abuse in relationships.
Dating violence is more common than you may think. 1 in 3 people have or will experience some type of abuse in their lives. This violence is especially common in young relationships. Teenagers often jump into these types of relationships without knowing what it takes to make it healthy.
California teenagers who commit these crimes are facing criminal consequences, and being charged with domestic violence offenses. At the age of 12, you are able to file a restraining order against whomever without the consent of your parents. Schools are also beginning to provide programs to teach and inform about sexual abuse and sexual assault.
Dating Violence also isn’t just physical. It can be, but also emotional or psychological abuse along with stalking, following, and harassing in person or online are just as real and serious.
It is recommended that parents encourage teens to be open with them, so they aren’t afraid or embarrassed.However, many teens are fearful of what their parents may think. The National Institute of Justice offers online training for parents and teens to learn about how to prevent dating violence. There are also helplines to call to report violence or for coaching on how to safely leave an abusive relationship.
Victims of teenage dating violence have been said to be more likely to engage in self destructive behavior as a way to cope. They are more likely to begin to drink heavily, do poorly in school, and attempt suicide.
The only way to stop teen dating violence before it starts, is to understand and recognize the signs. This issue needs to be addressed and talked about in order to spread awareness, and prevent more cases.
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